What Is An Average Session With a Pro Domme?
What does an average session with a Pro Domme look like? Miss Vixie Nyx answers.
I think I and every other Pro Domme is asked, "What's an average session look like?" That's a two part question rolled into one. Most people want to know what's the most common session we have, and what does the structure look like.
The first part has no solid answer. Every client is an individual who comes to me for their own reasons. I can't take what one client wanted or asked for and magically repeat that with another client.
Even if it's a client with the same kink as another client, there is still no "average" session. I'll take bondage for example since that's something I do a lot of. One client can approach asking for a specific type of bondage that adds other things like impact play or perhaps heel worship. The very next client asks for bondage as well, but they would like to be bound, gagged, and completely secure. The same kink, two different clients, and two different requests.
There is no "average" session when it comes to the reason someone comes to see a Pro Domme. It is as varied as the people who come to see us.
As far as the structure of a session, there is more of an "average" for that. However, things change and differ per client. Usually we begin by finalizing any negotiations required and consent for the session is given. I won't start a session without a final negotiation and consent given. After that, the session begins and the client has a time to explore. Once that part is done, I do give an option for light aftercare if it's required. If it isn't required, then I pack my things and wish them a good day/evening.
That's what it looks like for me. As a client, you should expect to be prepared for your Domme when she enters your space. You should also be prepared to give consent and be able to communicate one more time what it is you asked for in a session. Then, prepare yourself to explore and enjoy it. If you do require any aftercare, some Dommes provide it and some don't. It's best to ask before the session.
Sessions with a Pro Domme are as unique as our clients, and there is no one formula or one answer that fits everyone. It's one reason I do what I do. I know how to curate an experience for my client based on what they want and what they need.